We’ve been talking about how society patronizes women when it comes to money quite a bit lately. But what, exactly, does that look like? Sallie has a few thoughts on this one.
By making us feel guilty.
By making us think that not buying a coffee from a coffee shop can help us become millionaires. By telling us that we have to save, and budget, and not talking to us about investing. Telling us that we’re risk-averse. All the messages we get, as women, about money, that are guilt-inducing and shame-inducing.
It starts in childhood when parents talk to their little girls about budgeting, and saving, and being careful, and little boys about making money, and being the CEO, and going to the top of the jungle gym. It continues as we become young adults and we are told to “take the money quiz” to find out our “money type,” while the guys are told about diversified investment portfolios.
The result of all of this is that the primary emotions so many women feel around money are shame, and loneliness, and isolation.
We need to break this down, get rid of the guilt. Don’t listen to the patronizing voices, and talk about money.
*I’m excited to work with Ellevest to start conversations about women and money. If you become a client, I will be compensated.
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